The title of the video is a bit misleading. Basically, she's speaking about the trials and tribulations of natural hair, how not everyday will be a walk on the beach and accepting yourself anyway. Going from relaxed to natural is a journey, but it's very liberating and I can't see being any other way.
For those of you struggling with the transition, just know it's rough for everyone when they start. Patience, research and tenacity will get you through. Use all the online resources, as well as those in your community if you have access.
It's not that natural hair is hard to maintain, it's that we are so used to the relaxed way of life we have become separated from our natural state of being. Once you have been natural for a while, you will see it is no more easy or difficult to maintain than any other style, just different.
I encourage all chemical free women & girls to keep it up. The rewards far outweigh any initial discomfort. Happy travels :))